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Expat divorce: Choosing the applicable divorce law

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What is Rome III and who does it apply to?

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How can spouses choose the applicable Law?

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What happens without a choice – The fallback rules

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Why choosing the right law matters – implications for expats

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Expat divorce

When international marriages break down, divorce becomes more than an emotional challenge—it turns into a legal maze.

For expatriates, the question of which country’s law will apply can have life-changing consequences on asset division, custody arrangements, and financial support.

The stakes are high, and the differences between legal systems can dramatically impact the outcome. Acting quickly and strategically is essential to protect your interests.

At our firm, we combine deep expertise in cross-border family law with a proven ability to navigate complex jurisdictional conflicts.

Whether your marriage was celebrated abroad, your assets are spread across multiple countries, or you and your spouse hold different nationalities, we can help you choose the legal framework most favorable to your case.

Book a consultation today and get strategic legal guidance within 48 hours. Every decision in an expat divorce counts—secure your rights now with an internationally oriented legal team that understands both the French system and the nuances of foreign laws.

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What is Rome III and who does it apply to?

What exactly is the Rome III Regulation?

Rome III is the informal name for Council Regulation (EU) No 1259/2010, a law that allows certain EU countries to adopt a uniform set of rules for determining the applicable law in cross-border divorces and legal separations.

It’s designed for situations where spouses have different nationalities, live in a country that is not their home country, or have lived in multiple countries during their marriage.

It’s important to note: not all EU countries participate. The regulation applies in a group of “participating member states” that have chosen enhanced cooperation in this area, including France, Spain, Italy, Germany, Belgium, Luxembourg, and others. The UK, Ireland, and Denmark opted out.

Does Rome III apply to me if I’m not an EU citizen?

Yes!

Citizenship is not the key factor. What matters is where you start your divorce proceedings. If your divorce is filed in a participating member state, Rome III rules apply, even if neither spouse is an EU citizen.

That’s why it’s particularly relevant for expats living in France, Spain, or other participating states.

How is Rome III different from Brussels II bis or Brussels II ter?

Rome III deals solely with which law applies to the divorce—not which court has jurisdiction. The Brussels II regulations deal with jurisdiction and recognition of judgments.

It’s possible, for example, that a French court has jurisdiction under Brussels II, but under Rome III the law applied could be that of another country.

What is the main advantage of Rome III for expats?

Choice.

Spouses can agree—before or during the proceedings—on which national law will apply to their divorce. This can have a major impact on outcomes such as property division, spousal maintenance, and even child-related issues (though custody is regulated separately).

Comparison: French Civil Law vs Common Law in divorce

  • French Civil Law: Divorce is governed by codified statutes, with relatively predictable outcomes. The law emphasises equitable distribution, but not always a strict 50/50 split. Spousal maintenance is considered based on need and resources, not fault.
  • Common Law (e.g., England & Wales): Courts have broader discretion, often aiming for a “fair” result, which can be more generous to the financially weaker spouse, especially in long marriages.
  • Impact for Expats: Choosing French law could result in smaller maintenance awards and quicker procedures; choosing common law could increase financial awards but increase litigation.
Why might I want to avoid the default rule?

If you don’t make a choice, Rome III has a hierarchy of “connecting factors” (last common residence, nationality, etc.) that will decide the law for you. This may lead to the application of a law less favorable to your situation.

If you are an expat in France or another Rome III country and want to secure the most favorable divorce law, book a consultation with our international family law team today. We can guide you in choosing the right law before you file.

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How can spouses choose the applicable law?

When can we choose the law?

Spouses can choose the applicable law at any time before proceedings start, or during proceedings if the court allows.

However, early choice—through a marital agreement—is safest.

Which laws can we choose under Rome III?

You can choose the law of:

  1. Your habitual residence (current or last)
  2. The habitual residence of one spouse
  3. The citizenship of either spouse
  4. The law of the forum (where the court is)
Can we choose any law in the world?

No!

Your choice is limited to these connections. You cannot, for example, choose California law unless one of you has citizenship or habitual residence there.

What formalities are required for a valid choice?

Rome III requires a written agreement, dated and signed by both spouses. Some countries impose additional safeguards—France, for example, may require a notarised form.

Comparison: Pre-Nuptial and Choice-of-Law Agreements

  • France: Prenups are possible but historically less common; they are respected if formalities are met. Choice-of-law clauses are binding under Rome III if properly executed.
  • Common Law: Prenups are enforceable in some jurisdictions (e.g., England & Wales) but subject to fairness review at the time of divorce.
What’s the risk if we don’t formalise our choice?

If the court finds the agreement invalid or non-compliant, the default connecting factors apply—and you could end up under a much less favourable law.

Can we change the applicable law later?

Yes, if both agree, but only within the limits of Rome III and before the final divorce judgment.

We can draft and formalise your choice-of-law agreement to ensure it’s valid under Rome III and recognized by the court. Contact us before starting proceedings to protect your position.

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What happens without a choise? – the fallback rules

How does the court decide if we haven’t chosen?

Rome III applies a hierarchy:

  1. Law of the spouses’ last common habitual residence, if one still resides there.
  2. Law of the spouses’ common citizenship.
  3. Law of the forum (where proceedings are started).
Why can this lead to unexpected results?

Because “habitual residence” can be interpreted differently between civil law and common law traditions, and because nationality rules vary.

Example:
An English-French couple last lived together in Paris. The husband moves to London, the wife stays in France. If divorce is filed in France, the applicable law will likely be French law, even though one spouse is English.

Impact of Civil vs Common Law Differences

  • Property Division: French law applies the matrimonial property regime (e.g., community of acquisitions unless otherwise agreed), often resulting in equal division of property acquired during marriage.
  • Common Law: No automatic property regimes—court decides division based on needs and contributions, which could yield a different outcome.
Can the fallback law be challenged?

Not usually—unless there is a strong argument that the connecting factor has been misapplied or is manifestly contrary to public policy.

If you think the default Rome III rule will hurt your case, act before proceedings start. Book a strategic consultation to plan your filing location and applicable law choice.

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Why choosing the right law matters – implications for expats

Does the choice of law affect financial outcomes?

Absolutely. Maintenance, property division, and even eligibility for certain claims can differ drastically.

Example:

  • Under French law, post-divorce maintenance is limited and rehabilitative.
  • Under English common law, it can be lifelong in certain cases.
Are children’s issues affected?

No—custody and child support are governed separately, usually by the Hague Child Protection Convention and local law of the child’s habitual residence.

Can tax consequences differ?

Yes!

Especially for property transfers. French law may exempt certain inter-spousal transfers during divorce from taxation; other systems may not.

What about speed and cost of proceedings?

French divorces (by mutual consent) can be finalised in months; English financial proceedings can take much longer and be more expensive.

Case Study: Anglo-French Couple

An English husband and French wife, married in London, moved to Paris. They separate after 15 years. If they choose French law, the wife’s maintenance may be lower but proceedings faster; if English law, maintenance higher but process longer and more expensive.

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